WHY TEENS REJECT HELP FROM THE PEOPLE WHO CARE MOST
Parents often observe that teens will talk to others but not to them.
This is not because the parent is unimportant.
It is because the parent is highly important.
Teens may fear:
Disappointment
Judgement
Loss of independence
So they avoid vulnerability.
Distance is often a form of protection.
Connection improves when parents:
Reduce judgement
Listen without fixing
Remain available
Over time, this builds trust….